Comments on: I can’t do this right now http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/i-cant-do-this-right-now/ An SF girl's systematic approach to ending her singledom Sat, 14 Nov 2009 23:29:32 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Roodle http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/i-cant-do-this-right-now/#comment-450 Roodle Tue, 07 Jul 2009 23:13:53 +0000 http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/?p=511#comment-450 Same here! People need a break from most activities, so why not dating? We're not saying we'll never date again, just not right now. It stinks that your dating life has been feeling like a "near-constant stream of rejection." If you come back fresh later, something may have shifted, either in your perspective or how you carry yourself, that will break that pattern. So focus on other things, and don't worry about the future for now. ENJOY! Roodle P.S. I don't clean my house either. After a decade or so of that, I splurged on a one-time visit from a housecleaner. Pretty quickly I worked up to a regular monthly visit. Now my goal in this economy is to continue to support my habit. I'll cut back on eating out and stuff, but getting to continue not cleaning (which I love) and also live in a clean house is too good to give up Same here!

People need a break from most activities, so why not dating? We’re not saying we’ll never date again, just not right now.

It stinks that your dating life has been feeling like a “near-constant stream of rejection.” If you come back fresh later, something may have shifted, either in your perspective or how you carry yourself, that will break that pattern.

So focus on other things, and don’t worry about the future for now. ENJOY!

Roodle

P.S. I don’t clean my house either. After a decade or so of that, I splurged on a one-time visit from a housecleaner. Pretty quickly I worked up to a regular monthly visit. Now my goal in this economy is to continue to support my habit. I’ll cut back on eating out and stuff, but getting to continue not cleaning (which I love) and also live in a clean house is too good to give up

]]> By: Alix http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/2009/07/01/i-cant-do-this-right-now/#comment-449 Alix Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:29:27 +0000 http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/?p=511#comment-449 Your unique perspective will be missed but your post makes lots of sense. There's something to be said for taking a break from reflection ... although your reflections have given us some good food for thought. :) We'll all starve a little without your input. Your unique perspective will be missed but your post makes lots of sense. There’s something to be said for taking a break from reflection … although your reflections have given us some good food for thought. :) We’ll all starve a little without your input.

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