Comments on: Can I Really Handle a Fling? http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/can-i-really-handle-a-fling/ An SF girl's systematic approach to ending her singledom Sat, 14 Nov 2009 23:29:32 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Meryl http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/can-i-really-handle-a-fling/#comment-474 Meryl Sun, 01 Nov 2009 11:43:43 +0000 http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/?p=73#comment-474 Wow found this blog exactly when I needed to ..thanks for sharing! Wow found this blog exactly when I needed to ..thanks for sharing!

]]> By: Missing Signals: Eye Contact « 100 Emails, 20 Dates http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/can-i-really-handle-a-fling/#comment-440 Missing Signals: Eye Contact « 100 Emails, 20 Dates Mon, 01 Jun 2009 02:57:42 +0000 http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/?p=73#comment-440 [...] think guys who don’t like me actually do like me. (Evidence 1. Evidence [...] [...] think guys who don’t like me actually do like me. (Evidence 1. Evidence [...]

]]> By: I’ve become a bro « 100 Emails, 20 Dates http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/can-i-really-handle-a-fling/#comment-414 I’ve become a bro « 100 Emails, 20 Dates Sun, 03 May 2009 19:38:45 +0000 http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/?p=73#comment-414 [...] am horrible at accurately reading guys’ signals. I always think guys who just want to hook up actually like me and that guys who like me just want to be friends. When D.D. and I were hanging out as friends, he [...] [...] am horrible at accurately reading guys’ signals. I always think guys who just want to hook up actually like me and that guys who like me just want to be friends. When D.D. and I were hanging out as friends, he [...]

]]> By: Nicole http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/can-i-really-handle-a-fling/#comment-123 Nicole Tue, 18 Nov 2008 03:28:30 +0000 http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/?p=73#comment-123 I think I'm incapable of having a fling. If I'm attracted to a guy, I want to date him. Or at least get to know him better in some context other than my bedroom. But I think you're right -- there's too much history. It would never be a nice, tidy little thing. It's over and you never see him again. I'm going to see him again, and I'm still going to have to pretend we never kissed. The follow-up just gets too complicated! I think I’m incapable of having a fling. If I’m attracted to a guy, I want to date him. Or at least get to know him better in some context other than my bedroom.

But I think you’re right — there’s too much history. It would never be a nice, tidy little thing. It’s over and you never see him again. I’m going to see him again, and I’m still going to have to pretend we never kissed. The follow-up just gets too complicated!

]]> By: Heather http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/2008/10/08/can-i-really-handle-a-fling/#comment-110 Heather Sun, 16 Nov 2008 14:40:23 +0000 http://100emails20dates.wordpress.com/?p=73#comment-110 (Nothing like commenting on a 5-week old post!) Perhaps it's not that you're incapable of having a fling, but that you're incapable of having a fling with HIM. Maybe there's too much history? Too much anticipation? I've never had a fling, so maybe I'm just talking out of my ass, so feel free to disregard whatever I say! :) (Nothing like commenting on a 5-week old post!)

Perhaps it’s not that you’re incapable of having a fling, but that you’re incapable of having a fling with HIM. Maybe there’s too much history? Too much anticipation? I’ve never had a fling, so maybe I’m just talking out of my ass, so feel free to disregard whatever I say! :)

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